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Magical people management skill – Young boy and the glass of milk

Uncle and child with the toy car

I am about to relate a true story of a little boy.

He hailed from a middle-class family of Bengal, Kolkata. Had very loving parents, who always wanted to give their child the best that they could afford. It was a happy family.

Both sister and brother were very close

Playful afternoons

The boy also had an elder sister, who too cared for her little brother, and being older, always kept her vigil on the naughty boy.

The boy was around six or seven years old, played all day long, after coming from school, ate those juicy jack fruits that grew in the garden of his house.

The naughty boy loved the Gardenia tree

The English name is Gardenia. Yes, indeed it had an extraordinary, delicate scent. The flower had an intoxicating effect on the boy too. Most of the late afternoon he spent on tree swinging on the branches.

Gardenia flower, its simple beauty
had sweetest of the fragrances

Everyone loved that flower, bloomed probably during the humid summer months of April through June.

The boy used to pluck one and danced, smiling to himself and used to wrap around the big towel around himself imitating an Indian prince of ancient India.

The playful boy with dreams

Thanks to the history lessons his father had given him as he was posted in New Delhi where Mughal monuments in plenty stand.

Evening terror

All these fun-filled times across the day used to slowly come to an end for the boy when evening descended on the household.

With sunset, the evening meant the fear of …

Evening meant, no more play as the sun had gone down, it also meant the boy has to open the school books.  

A mother’s stern voice, rang out in Bengali ‘খে নাও’, in English, it meant, “Drink it..’ and with no please attached, a hint of anger laced mother’s voice. The boy felt as if the world had stopped.

Fear of milk, gripped him

Milk agony

This happened every day. He wanted to have a world of his own where there was no milk.

He hated milk, for its distinctive smell.

Mom’s anger flowing all over

The boy held his nose with two fingers to block the nasal passage trying all he could to stop the milky smell of the dreaded white.

Somehow he gulped the milk down, coughed in the process, spilling it on the table.

The life moved on for the boy with these painful evenings.

Father’s love

His father stayed in Delhi and visited the family every six months. Both the children, loved him and yearned for his return.

Father’s love

He used to smother them with love and affection, held them close and then came the final moments for them – out came the gifts for the boy and his sister.

On one such occasion, the boy was gifted with a model of a car. All he knew in his life was ‘cars’ in all its shapes and sizes. He used to love cars. His father knew the boy’s liking and brought him a model of a 1967 silver maroon Mercedes Benz(MB) 220 S

Mercedes Benz 220 S, the dinky model which was gifted to me by my father by Gautam Lahiri
Mercedes Benz 220 S

The car model stretched at six inches and was made to perfection.

Minutest of the details, like the 3 pointed star emblem of a Mercedes, small tires with patterns, all existed. He loved it.

Father’s gift, the car

He could lose everything for this car and with utmost care kept it beside his study books, besides his pillow when he went to bed.

As days and months passed, so did the boy but a few things in life refused to change. The milk events remained as terrible as ever for the boy’s daily life.

Imaginative uncle

The smiling doctor
Boy and doctor chemistry
Passion for the toy car

The boy sheepishly brought his right hand and showed the doctor what he was holding on the outstretched palm, the maroon Mercedes. The doctor was silent for a moment and bent down,

Changing moments

One day, the doctor came home late from the hospital. He was always very respectful of people and their privacy so he stood there listening at a distance to an altercation between his sister, and the little boy.

Doctor who planned

The afternoon sun had gone down, a light breeze blew in through the window and gently moved the draperies.

Through the crack, the doctor heard the dreaded ‘milk’ episode. He stood there listening to both mother and son but did not speak. Retreated after the boy finally finished the milk.

Remarkable approach

The next day, the doctor came home a little early and was sitting near the dinner table when the little boy comes running to his uncle.

Doctor’s unique problem solution

The doctor remained quiet and was looking out of the window towards the patches of blue afternoon sky as if lost in thought.

The boy sat up and with twinkling eyes,

The doctor smiled,

The moments of change

The boy expectantly asked what the doctor had seen.

The doctor put his hand on the boy’s head and looked at him…“You want to hear..ok, listen to this”. “I was standing in front of a petrol pump, like every day to catch a bus when I return home from the hospital. Today the bus was delaying… I stood there and waited when something caught my eye.”

Doctor awaits the bus

He continued, “I saw across the street, the petrol pump which remains open till about midnight and fills the motor cars.

Child psychology exemplified

Mercedes drinking milk?

Uncle continued, “The Mercedes waited and then moved to the far corner of the petrol pump, and parked herself beside a different looking petrol wending machine.

The driver got out and looked at the machine, and touched the hosepipe which connected the decanter.”

The Benz cars waited for their fill of milk
Once the fresh milk filled her, she blasted off
Transformation takes place, he
starts loving the milk
The loving reunion under the
far away smile of his uncle

Far away, behind the door of the other room, his uncle stood with a smile and saw the triumphant duo.

Never again, the boy refused or was against having the milk and for very many years.

He believed that Mercedes that day did drink the milk until he was matured enough to realize his uncle’s splendid approach to make him drink milk. I truly miss my uncle.

Inference


3 responses to “Magical people management skill – Young boy and the glass of milk”

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    Anonymous

    Beautifully told

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